Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Musings on Memorial Day

By Jeff Orvis

This week we paused to observe Memorial Day. A day that is generally meant to remember sacrifices of members of our armed forces over the years has been expanded to include a time to remember anyone of our friends or relatives who have passed away. It's a great time of year for florists, butchers and those that sell charcoal and outdoor grills.

One of the most memorable recent traditions of the day occurs in Washington, D.C. An outdoor program of music and remembrances honors our fighting forces. Honored guests are usually several hundred ambulatory victims of our most recent wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as a dwindling number of veterans of World War II and the Korean War.

I'll admit that over the years my view of the military has mellowed. Forty-five years ago, as I was finishing my last couple of years in high school, this country was wrapped up in a war in Southeast Asia that would ultimately result in our instituting a draft and a lottery. If your number was low and you were fit, you got the call. For a time, if you were in college, you were given a deferment. But as our involvement in what would eventually be a losing cause required more fighting forces, the rules for potential draftees changed.

As I recall, first I was given a 4F designation. They didn't want someone who was legally blind in one eye and hopelessly uncoordinated. Then my birthday was a high lottery number and I was enrolled in college.
There were several communities around this country who were hit hard by the Vietnam War. Several members of graduating classes weren't alive for their five-year reunions. 

Very few of my classmates went into the military out of high school. We were only personally grazed the the conflict in comparison to some of those other communities around the nation. I did attend the funeral of the older brother of a guy who played in our high school band. The young man was killed in the war and received full military honors after a mile-long caravan from the funeral home to the cemetery.

The memories of that time are once again fresh as some of our recent high school grads have decided to enter the service. Some of them are enlisting because of the educational benefits available. Some view it as a steady paycheck, either for the length of their initial enlistment obligation or as a career. Still others realize they need the discipline and direction they will receive in the military.

The military would like you to believe that most enlistees raise their hands to fight for the oppressed and to fight off the terror threat. I'm sure that many young soldiers and sailors may enlist for some of the prior reasons listed and eventually adopt the realization that they can make a difference in the lives of the citizens of the countries where they are sent to fight.

Our town has had some extraordinary examples of those who have opted to enter the military. One young man who was an outstanding high school wrestler came home on leave shortly after Marine basic training. I asked him how it was and he shrugged and said it was no tougher than high school wrestling practice. Another young man, an outstanding high school athlete, was chosen for the presidential Marine honor guard. But he reportedly complained that he didn't go through all that intense training to set up folding chairs for White House functions and he eventually became a specialist in defusing roadside bombs in war zones.

From a purely political standpoint, there are some alarming comparisons between the Vietnam era and today. We left Southeast Asia without any kind of victory and Vietnam eventually was taken by the Communists. We have generally pulled out of Iraq and there is still plenty of fighting going on there, with the possibility that it will result in civil war. We are preparing to leave Afghanistan. But the unstable government, the culture and the rugged terrain means there will probably be no clear-cut victory when we leave.

We live in a results-driven society. When we invest time and money in something, we want immediate results. I'm afraid we didn't see any positive results from Vietnam and we won't from our over 10 years of war in the Middle East, other than the elimination of some terror cells. But we have the reminder of the thousands of lives lost, the tens of thousands who sustained permanent injury and the billions of dollars poured into the effort.

So what is the point of spending at least part of our Monday day off this week attending military services or watching the production on TV? I couldn't answer that 45 years ago. But maybe these years have given me the wisdom to say now that it's a time to thank those who decide to take the oath. Not so they can go off to fight in some small country that we may never see, but so that they can be ready if there is ever a direct threat to this country.

The rebel side of me hopes that as we pause to thank our military, we can best support them by making sure that they receive all of the physical and mental treatment they need when they return from the war. We should also honor them by questioning our leaders as they embark on future military actions across the globe. History shows that neither political party has been immune to mistakes made by our leaders that prolonged our involvement in a lot of armed conflicts.

Maybe every time we hear “The Battle Hymn of the Republic” we should also quietly sing “All We Are Saying is Give Peace a Chance.”

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