By Jeff Orvis
The first of August. It's a time when
kids are probably dreading heading back to school, even as they wake
up each day wondering how they will fill the time and not be bored.
Parents meanwhile are counting the days until their little darlings
are placed in the capable hands of educators, so that for a few hours
each day at least, curing boredom won't be the parents' problem.
Through the magic of way too many TV
channels and reruns, I have rediscovered “The Waltons.” For those
of you who may not remember 30-40 years ago, it was a show featuring
a family of seven children, including an elder son who narrated each
episode. The family lived on Waltons Mountain in West Virginia during
and after the Great Depression. As the kids grew, their summers were
filled with chores, including feeding and tending to some livestock,
helping in their father's sawmill or their mother and grandmother
with household chores. Free time was spent exploring the wonderful
wilderness surrounding the homestead.
Naturally, being involved in the
writing business for some years, I gravitated toward John-Boy, the
elder son. I didn't have six brothers and sisters, one sister seemed
to be enough when I was growing up. But in each episode, as John-Boy
remembers different times of his childhood, it stokes the fire of my
memory (how's that for fancy description) of what life was like for
me way back in the dark ages growing up near the Quad-Cities.
I may be the only person you know who
spent some of his formative years living on an estate. Before I
started kindergarten, our family moved to an estate that had been
developed by a local industrialist and was then the property of
Alcoa, where my dad worked. There were two homes on the property.
Before you jump to conclusions, let me explain that we didn't live in
the 33-room mansion, but in a two-bedroom apartment over a three-car
garage. From the attic to the basement, or sub-basement, this brick
building had five floors. My bedroom overlooked the mansion and I was
probably the only kid in Riverdale Elementary School with a tennis
court in my front yard.
Our back yard was bordered by a ravine
with thick woods. Over in the corner of the property, was what we
called “the dump.” Years before, it was used to dump cement and
other building materials from a nearby neighborhood that had been
carved out of a farm. More on that neighborhood later.
Alcoa was in charge of general
maintenance on the property. That meant that they cut down the
diseased Dutch elms and scooped the snow from the drive leading up to
the property from the highway. We were in charge of mowing our front
and back yards. The tennis court was usable, but it was made out of
cement slabs and you had to know how to gauge the bounces when the
tennis ball hit the cracks. It was also a great place for yours truly
to learn how to ride a bike. I don't remember when that great day
came, but I know I was probably the last kid in my class to take
those training wheels off the bike!
As I said, my dad worked at Alcoa in
the metallurgical testing department and as the plant photographer.
Mom stayed home until we reached junior high age. Besides taking good
care of the house, she would sometimes go off for a couple of hours,
wandering through our woods and bringing home buckets of wild black
raspberries. There was probably some mushroom hunting involved at
times, but I avoided those things. But Mom made the best jelly out of
the berries and I just assumed that everybody had homemade jelly all
winter.
For any younger readers out there, I
should explain that this was an era before home computers, video
games, 100+ channel cable TV or even color TV for that matter. But we
looked forward to days like we've experienced around here for the
past few weeks. We would finish breakfast, head for the door and Mom
wouldn't see us until lunch time. When you have tennis to play, woods
to explore, forts to build and sisters to torment, who needs video?
We had our share of wildlife around
the house. We might see a deer or two each year, plenty of squirrels
and birds and an occasional woodchuck. Why we never encountered a
skunk in those woods I'll never know, but I'm eternally grateful! We
also had a couple of cats who adopted us. In fact one of those cats
led to my biggest mishap in those early years. Our apartment was
reached by an outside wooden stairway. One day, I was sitting on the
top step and leaned down to pet our cat on the next step. Next thing
I knew, I was tumbling head-over-heels down about 14 steps. My sister
ran over and just stared at me and I had to growl, “Go get Mom!”
Somehow, I was helped up the steps and spent the rest of the day in
bed. But I think I was good as new the next day – no broken bones!
When I was in junior high, we had an
opportunity to move to a rental house, also owned by Alcoa, that was
about a half-mile away. It meant a third bedroom and life closer to a
real neighborhood. The final straw came when we began hearing a
family of raccoons that had taken up residence in the attic of the
apartment.
Life in the neighborhood originally
known as “Pleasant Hills” was a different experience. It also
gave us an opportunity to become friends with a family that resembled
the Waltons, at least in the number of kids running around. But
that's another story for the next time.
The point of all of this is if you are
a parent or grandparent, there might be great value in jotting down
memories of your own childhood. If you came from a stable, loving
two-parent family, you were truly blessed. But even if you had your
struggles, there had to be some good times to remember. Memories
don't cost anything, especially the good ones!
When are you going to ramble about our escapades in Indee?
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