Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Miracles not confined to Christmas

By Jeff Orvis

Merry Christmas! Yes, here is one proud liberal who is not ashamed to say those words this time of year. While I know there are millions of people around the world who follow a different faith or no faith at all, by saying “Merry Christmas,” I am doing my small part to profess my faith without jamming it down the throat of anybody else.

End of political statement.

This time of year, many people expect a “Christmas miracle.” Sometimes you wonder if God is saving up all his miracles for this season. In truth, I believe God performs miracles every day, whether we realize it or not.

 As I was wondering what to write for this holiday message, I thought about reviewing what has happened in my life this past year. But then I decided that might seem a bit selfish. But a couple of events did occur that had some impact on me, though only in a passing way.

There are two families who are undoubtedly thanking God for miracles that happened to their loved ones prior to the height of the holiday season. But as they gather together at their respective homes, they undoubtedly will look across the room and be thankful that their loved ones are still with them.

A few weeks before I moved back to Belle Plaine, I learned of a strange illness that hit Charles Johnson. For those of you who may not be from the Belle Plaine area, it's hard to describe Charles in a paragraph or two. A big, strapping man with an ever-present smile, Charles has always been quick with a hearty “Hello.” It usually takes only about 10 seconds to realize that this guy is your friend.

He came to Belle Plaine and married a woman who has four of the most beautiful, intelligent and gifted daughters I've ever met. That he would join a family of five females tells you something about his patience. Together he and Karen raised these young women, saw them through school, college, career starts and relationships that have led to marriages and some grandchildren.

Charles seems most comfortable outside. Maybe that's why he has been such a find for the city of Belle Plaine, where he has been the parks superintendent for several years. But he is also a spiritual man and several years ago, he made the decision to study for the ministry. Upon completion of his studies, he became the pastor at the Chelsea Methodist Church.

One morning this year, Charles said he woke up and experienced some ever-increasing symptoms of what was first thought to be a stroke. It turned out to be a virus that rendered him frustratingly inactive for several days. Fast forward a few months and after a hospital and rehabilitation unit stay, he is physically back to his old self.

That was one of two miracles I experienced. A week or two after I had moved back here, I happened to pass Franklin Park, where I saw Charles' pick-up truck. I stopped and he met me with a big bear-hug and that hearty hello. He explained what he had been through and also informed me that he was not only back in the parks, but back in the pulpit at his church. Talk about a “Praise God moment!”

The other miracle involves a man whom I met just once. But we have corresponded via e-mail a few times and to say he has been a professional inspiration to me would be an understatement.

For more than 65 years, Bill Wundram has been on the staff of what is now the Quad-City Times. For those of us who hope we can retire after 30 years, when we read about someone who has worked in the same profession for more than 65 years when he is well into his eighties, that's a true inspiration.

After doing just about everything on the editorial side of the paper over the years, Bill has settled into a spot on Page Two, where he writes a column most days of the week. For those of you who were familiar with my Ramblings columns over the years or who enjoy Jim Magdefrau's column in the Star Press Union each week, Bill does the same sort of thing. But his audience is just a little bigger – probably more than 300,000 loyal readers. But he often writes about the small stuff that makes life worth living.

So it was with a bit more than a little concern when readers read a notice in the paper that Bill was “taking some time off.” Finally, he returned and told us what happened.

He and his wife were out eating brunch one morning in celebration of their 61st wedding anniversary when he was struck by a migraine headache. He wasn't too alarmed, until it kept getting worse and his wife took him to the local hospital. It was there that he was diagnosed with a stroke. By the time the diagnosis was made and the neurologist had arrived, the time frame for administering that drug that is supposed to stop the symptoms had passed. It was only through the insistence of Bill and Helen's son that he was given the injection anyway.

As he later wrote, by this time, he had lost most ability to speak and begged his wife and son not to let him go on living if this would be the result. For some reason, despite the delay in administering the drug, it began to work. By the next morning, when his wife returned to his bedside, he was again speaking clearly and was well on the road to recovery. In fact a few days after his release from the hospital, he was already attending a benefit gathering at Davenport's Outing Club and claims that he is well on the way to dancing the jig again!

So that's my second “Praise God” moment. I'm happy to share it with his family and the thousands of readers who think of Bill as a friend.

Sometimes at this time of year, we get caught up in a lot of preparations. Then we may feel guilty for the bounty we have when we hear about those less fortunate. Maybe one way to deal with this is to try to recognize one or two miracles that have occurred in your life and give thanks to the One responsible.

Have a Blessed Christmas and Wonderful New Year!

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

A different view on the holiday shopping frenzy

By Jeff Orvis

Gray Thursday, Black Friday, Small Business Saturday, Cyber Monday. Here it is a couple of days after the initial madness of the holiday shopping frenzy. These are the times when I am somewhat grateful for living on a limited budget. Most of the members of my family who will be getting presents from me already have more material possessions than I do. I'm not complaining. I celebrate their good fortune and at the same time am thankful for what I have.

I suspect that at least some of the folks who waited all night on Thanksgiving Eve for the chance at a good buy on a TV or computer were attempting to impress those who would be receiving the gifts. But I've never attempted to buy a gift for someone where I would risk being knifed, shot or tazered for the item. Do these folks really believe that a $200 TV is worth a possible hospital bill or a criminal record for disorderly conduct?

I'll admit I enjoy shopping for bargains on those rare occasions when I go to a store. But if I'm in a grocery store and there's one can of beans left on a shelf at a sale price and somebody else grabs it just before I get there, I'll gladly pay the extra dime for another brand of beans.

We live in an incredibly competitive society. Some would even call it a desperate society. Many folks are unfortunately living on the economic edge. But why do they think their lives will be better if they pull out that credit card and spend much more than they can actually afford? Will they remember that warm feeling they had at gift giving time when, three months down the road they are contemplating bankruptcy when the bills are past due?

Corporate America lives on the gullibility and impatience of the public. That's a pretty strong statement and I realize that many corporations do a lot of good for all of us. But when I see a credit card commercial where the consumer is offered points or frequent flier miles for using a particular card, no where do I see that the consumer can be charged up to 24 percent or more annual interest for using the card. When Menard's, the home improvement giant, advertises a big rebate sale, only in the fine print do you notice that the rebate is actually a Menard's card, not cash.

I used to like to look at the newspaper ad inserts from Walgreen's and CVS pharmacies. They are both wonderful stores. But the advertised sale prices on virtually everything in those fliers come with a small print that says, “with card.” In order to receive that price, you have to present a card that indicates that you have filled out an application, probably including your address or e-mail address, professing your loyalty to that store and enabling corporate to send you all sorts of junk mail.

Just sell me the item at the posted price and don't make me flash a card.

I've told this story before. But when my family decided to spend a big portion of our tax refund on our first computer, we went to one of those big box stores and found a nice computer at a reasonable price. But the fine print stated that in order to get that price, we had to mail in a rebate form. So I asked the unfortunate salesman who waited on us to show us a computer that didn't come with a rebate. When he said that wasn't possible, we said “Thanks” and walked out. We went across the street to another store and bought a computer with no rebate attached. Apparently, more folks did the same thing. I notice now that the big box retailer has fewer rebate specials.

The only way all this will change is if the consumer starts taking more care when he or she makes a purchase. As long as you make purchases with those loyalty cards, buy big ticket items at stores where the sale price is only obtained with a rebate then maybe or maybe not remember to send in for the rebate or keep buying those 11 ounce cans of coffee that were were once 16 ounces – for the same price – without protesting to the corporations, nothing will change.

More importantly at this time of the year, if you believe that those certain presents are available for a “limited time only” and you spend your time and money trying to make someone else happy, you will lose sight of the real “reason for the season.” That babe in the manger in Bethlehem certainly didn't need a big screen TV. Those treasures presented by the Wise Men were nice, but I doubt they had to fight off crowds for them, or mail in rebate forms to pay for them.

So while I'll do a little shopping this holiday season, I'm vowing to spend more time in praise and thanksgiving for the One for whom we should all be celebrating this time of the year.

Although I hope to remember to post another message later this month, for now, have a merry, blessed and sane Christmas season!